Friday, July 18, 2014


More from my correspondent. 

He wrote: “While I would relish the experience of enjoying these young men's beautiful bodies and their cocks were it offered to me, the beauty of youth can be intimidating.

Youth, beauty and the carriage of it are often wasted on young peoples inexperience, lack of wisdom and tact.

I was selfish when I was young and more fit... I simply did not know what to do with my own body like I do today and what real male bonding was, much less what it would come to mean to me as I got older. my ideal of a mate was not unlike myself; cocksure, callous, proud and stubborn. how sad it was to realize when I got older that so many opportunities for male bonding, learning, growing and the gaining of wisdom were lost to me because of my outright shyness and inability to accept anything other than the religious bullshit and its expectations that I had been fed. the beauty of sex as play and as expressions of friendship and bonding with older, wiser and less physically fit men was what I really needed to teach me how to be less callous and to know and experience the true joy of our (my) bodies. I found out later in life that its what I truly wanted all along.

Whilst I read about this guy’s struggle out of his religious upbringing with a certain anguish I can also identify with where he is coming from.  Then it is wonderful to read the positive understanding that he came to of the real meaning and sexual dimension of male bonding and his ability to give it space in his life.  I also feel that he says something important and constructive when he says that sex taught him to be less callous and to know and experience the true joy of our bodies.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Changing Society

Commenting on my post “Wisdom” Patrick produced his own very wise dynamic sex-positive statement. 

I feel that if men want to "register" their relationship and receive ALL the legal rights of hetero married people that's fine. I don't want to call it "marriage". However, I am almost sure that men with "enhanced masculinity" actually NEED sexual encounters with other men as well as with their partner. I firmly believe that men in stable relationships should give each other the freedom to have sex with other men, within or outside the relationship. Homosexual relationships must be recognised as completely different to heterosexual marriages. It is my opinion that the sexually enhanced man NEEDS multiple partners to live a sexually fulfilling life.”   

Some Christians seem to think that by reaching out to gay couples and being open-minded about guys having sex together within a monogamous relationship they are preserving the essential Christian values, which amount to reticence on anything to do with sex.  Sex only when certain conditions are fulfilled.  One basic insight of Patrick’s comment is that men having sex with men is totally different from having sex between male and female, and that difference has nothing to do with the potential for reproduction.  Also Patrick’s insight that enhanced males need sex with variety of men is one that I find very valuable.  If this were to be recognized in society there would be a whole change of scenario in that it would have to be accepted that it was totally normal for men to have sex with men, no questions asked.

Patrick’s comment on my post “Feed” was just as positive and added a new dynamic  “If you and your partner(s) really enjoy what you are doing together, if you are fulfilled by the experience, if neither one is forced beyond what he wants to do, if you feel "lifted" to higher level and know that "almost out-of -body" awareness that happens in great sex, then what does it matter what exactly you are doing. A great sexual experience can also be a great spiritual experience.”   

The dynamic of the link between the sexual and the spiritual is a further dimension that society needs to be able to adopt.

Monday, July 14, 2014


Contuing with my same contributor.  Here I like the emphasis that the author puts on the mutual, deeply spiritual, benefits of mansex.  I do not recall seeing the beauty of mansex expressed so positively and dynamically before.  Note where he says that “It is spiritual, right and needed,” because all the time we have that thing nagging from within that says “is this right” so powerful is the effect of the negative formation we have had in matters sexual.


the feel of his cum,

hot searing splashes of sex...

the overpowering scent of male sweat and semen...

in the room, on your bodies and tongues...

the taste of licking your mixed cum from wherever it landed...

the viscous virile feel of it on your bodies...

to experience this is like nothing else in the world.

it is spiritual and right and needed . . .

Feed each other your cum... the milk of human kindness; and the elixier of liquid masculinity.

(How many of you eat cum? Eat your own cum? Share your thoughts and fantasies...)


because we all love to!

we love our cocks and those of other men!

because it feels good.

because we can

because we want to

because we need to cum

because we want cum

because its ancient

because its natural

because its normal. . .

because we do

no matter what your personal preferences are, sucking another man’s cock is part of the male experience. There is, quite simply enough, no other feeling to compare it to, whether you are the one getting sucked off, or are the one doing the sucking. There is no real way of describing the raw, natural, mutual act of it, because it is different for each man. …And yet the same. It is a sign of trust and honor between men. It is natural for men to want to suck and to be sucked. We give each other praise and reinforcement for being males. WE define ourselves by out cocks and the attention they command. It is male. It is masculine.

There is no other joy in the world like it.


...of magnificent, unimageinable masculine pleasure.

the scent that hits your senses like a drug...

the feel of the fabric and the hardness beneath...

the electricity pulling your balls up into you...

the sight of a promise to be unwrapped...

the taste of his cock in your mouth...

is the magnificent, indescribable joy of masculine male to male pleasure.


… a man’s cock was made for honor and respect… to suck and admire.”

I really appreciate the capacity this guy shows here for reflecting on his mansexing experiences in a way that will help us all to get real spiritual benefit out of our own.  He asks a question there that I need to answer, about eating cum.  Yes, for months now I have really enjoyed eating my own cum.  My experiences of eating other guys’ cum has been, however, more unconscious than conscious.  I have had guys cum in my mouth but never really made a point of savouring the moment or the taste.  I must do it more consciously in the future.  I also drink my own piss.  These two things certainly do something to me along the lines of realizing my masculinity.  Yes, I enjoy watersports, but I know that the very ideal freaks out a lot of guys and I do not despise them for this.

Saturday, July 12, 2014


I recently received the following very reflective marterial from the guy whose reflections I shared on my blgt in the month of May this year.  I find it very profound and meaningful, positive and helpful.  The same writer already shared othe material with me that I have not yet got round to oraganizing for publishing on my blog.  However, rather than deal with his material in order of arrival I was so taken and stimulated by what he just sent that I thought it better not to keep it waiting and to share it in a couple of posts immediately.

“Nothing is more humbling or arousing than the site of another man wanting to be fucked! The courage and honesty, the openess and revelation of his vulnerability is an amazing act of trust and need. And it is all there, every thought and every feeling, when a man "wants it."When another man wants to be taken... dominated... fucked... you'll know no force on earth to stop it.

knowing another man by his ass... tasting him... touching him... arousing him... taking him... is a doorway to knowing yourself and true masculinity.

It is the last bastion of male defense; of the damn self defeating control and guilt we are all taught we should always have by a society that refuses to grow and learn true spiriturality. The control of our own bodies has been taken from us... we have been taught to be ashamed and hate ourselves for needs that are natural and fulfilling. Take back the control and let the experience of real male bonding complete a circle of truth and understanding that is centuries old.
Share yourself with other men and know that in the act of getting fucked, you have control of both yourself and your partner. Let him enter you and in so doing enter your own world of complete maleness and fulfillment.  Share in each others giving to the other. it is reinforcing, reassuring, and revitalizing.  It is male.  Be male.

ONCE…you've tasted mansex... the heat of his cock... the smell of him... the taste of him exploding on your tongue... the feeling of his orgasm... you will know that it is right and you'll know you want more...there is nothing like the pleasure of being men together… satisfying each other’s need… sharing your cocks and your seed... Drink each other into your bodies and minds and then feel and know all that is male. . . drink the molten masculinity of becoming complete.  You will want more.”

I admire how positive this piece of writing is and
how dynamic.  This is just the encouragement that we enhanced males need to claim our inheritance and live what we are.  The writing is also poetic and deeply spiritual.